OK well. 2 weeks ago my then Boyfriend said he thinks we needed a break. I agreed. cuz we met over the net and rushed into things. So He said we can see other people. He got another gf, i got another gf. Well 2 days ago He came over we were walking then he kept smacking my ass then a couple times he kissed me. Then we got to the playground he got me on the ground and kissed me. Then we got back to my house. He said had sex with his gf 12 times then dumped her and now he is ready for a releastionship. Then he told me that my bf was playing me with 16 other girls. Before he told me he was a yahoo admin. and that he read all his convos. So I dont know what to do.. Someone help??? Im gettint stressed and depressed about this.

And you want to get pregnant ?

Originally posted by Tinkerbell61137
Before he told me he was a yahoo admin. and that he read all his convos.

That's an obvious lie, which should tell you everything you need to know about this jerk. Dump him!

You so called boyfriend that "wanted a break" is playing you for a fool. Do you want to be the type of woman that allows men to manipulate them? Because that is what he is doing. He doesn't want to be exclusive, but he doesn't want to loose you (a sure thing).

Tell him you appreciate his concern but having a "break" from him has made you realize that you want more from a relationship. Do not explain yourself to him even if he insists. He will only try and talk you out of it or make you feel silly for feeling like you do.

Tinkerbell, remember these things...

Relationships are supposed to improve you life, not stress you out or depress you.

Whenever you first meet someone, that is the nicest they will ever be to you. That is the time that they are trying to impress you. They will never treat you any better than in those first few meetings.

When a man tells you something about another man, always ask yourself why he is telling you that. What could be his motives.

Do not think that getting pregnant will change this guy. He will not suddenly become a great husband and father. More likely he will blame you for "ruining his life". He will dump you, and leave you to raise the child, and try desperately to get him to pay child support. He is a liar, and a jerk. Dump him, you deserve better.

Want to gain a reputation as an easy bimbo (bimbette)? Keep chasing that clown & putting up with his BS. Getting knocked up won't solve anything, in fact, it'll screw up everything even more. Your life will change in more ways than you're ready for, and you'll be stuck at the lower end of the socio-economic scale as a result of ending your formal education right where it is now as you enter the harsh life as a single parent.

Pretty much, what everyone else has said on here is exactly what I would say too. He's just out for an easy lay and your his next target. Don't do it.

If that´s what happened, and you have to ask people you don`t know on an internet forum for advice, I´d say maybe you should rethink ever having a boyfriend in the first place.... I´m not being mean here, but if you want to ever have a healthy relationship, you could do to be a bit less trusting. I for one think that young people like you and myself should not be as concerned about having serious, "grown up" relationships as everyone seems to be. Whatever happened to casual dating as a teenager and waiting until after college or maybe longer to get married or have kids?

I agree with everyone. Dump his ass! He's a lying, manipulative bastard. I know the type well.

this aint the guy that wanted to get me pregnant. WIth my ex now gonna be back to bf. Im not gonna have sex with him...

Get rid of both of the clowns.

Amen, Dan.

I broke up wit Chris.. the one that wanted a kid.. He only wanted 1 thing have sex wit me, get me pregnant, and leave me.

Good now stay away from males for at least 5 years !

lol. Im hoping to get back wit the ex

Why do you need a boyfriend anyway?

hate being alone.. and he got me a nice birthday gift today

Happy Birthday Tinkerbell :flowers:

thank you

Oh girl!

Well it looks you are hooked up to relation-ships or/and attention. You know, it is not bad to be alone and you have to get use to it. From my point of view, it is part of growing up to confront life by your own.

I mean it is very nice to have a bf or gf and to be loved, however it is not worth to be loved for that kind of people (one just wanted sex and the other just to be with you whenever he wants:rolleyes:).

Why don't you get good friends? it is a way of not feeling lonely but being sure they won't screw your life. Of course you might choose your friends wisely but that's another story. Why don't you rely on your parents or sisters or brothers?

PS Happy Birthday (don't waist your time thinking about those guys, go out with your friends and eat some cake!)

Originally posted by Tinkerbell61137
this aint the guy that wanted to get me pregnant. WIth my ex now gonna be back to bf. Im not gonna have sex with him...

honey, any idiot that wants to get you knocked up at 17 IS NOT HUSBAND/FATHER MATERIAL!!!! if a man (or boy) truly thought highly of you, he'd be telling you to focus on YOU, not what you can do for him.

Originally posted by Tinkerbell61137
hate being alone.. and he got me a nice birthday gift today

ah, there's the root of all your "issues": you hate being alone. well, personally, i do too. but make friends, be with your family, join a club...find something you enjoy. do not rely on any one person or thing to make you happy.

Does not sound as tho he has any respect for you and this is a sad state to live in.you are a living person with ideas and feelings that are just as important as anyone.Give him his walking papers.You can do better. C/YA