Ok here is how its going, i have a gf we have been going out not too long and we hang out on my days off sometimes but sometimes she knows its my day off and its like my only one for like a week and she goes off and spends it with some guy, but befor that she lies to me about it saying she wasnt over there and then i hear she does so she admits she was so theres one strike and then tonight she was like i dont feel good so ima just go to sleep so i was like fine then i wont come over tonight and then i find out she was just on the phone all night with a bunch of guys i dunno if any of this means any thing but also today she was well enough to go visit some friend in rehab which happens to be a guy and the night befor she was well enough to go to some concert with some guy.........help?

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Wow my post is dead worse then a Hanson concert....

[size=11:40625df151][color=darkblue:40625df151][b:40625df151]Hi Keith, Welcome to this board.-----It sounds like you need to confront your g/f and ask her why she's lying to you about what she's doing and make her tell you the truth about her true feelings for you instead of just stringing you along like she has been. If a relationship doesn't has trust, it has nothing. If she continues to treat you like that, I would discontinue the relationship because it's not a healthy relationship. You deserve a g/f who's going to commit to you and you only, not other men. If your g/f can't put you first, then she needs to go![/b:40625df151][/color:40625df151][/size:40625df151] :D

Well I can only say that you need to say goodbye to her, because if she lies about something small, what if she lies about something big, get the picture?

Sorry to hear this, best wishes. Trust me there are plenty of fish in the sea, you just gotta find the right bait to use. Its true, as corny as it sounds.

[color=#3f00ff:6b9d70edc8]It seems to me this girl isn't interested in having a serious relationship. Do yourself a favor and forget about her. i've been in your place, guys who didn't want to come out and tell me they weren't interested in me anymore, so they hoped I would take the hint when they made other plans or didn't call me. Make plans with your friends. Maybe they can introduce you to other girls. You deserve much better than what this girl is giving you![/color:6b9d70edc8]

Get rid of this broad as fast as you can.

All of the above :!: you know there's plenty more fish..........So toss her back & go fishing!
p.s. Beetle, you sound like a professional advice columnist!....I'll keep that in mind if that's ok with you! :)

I think beetle is right, i mean, she is probably screwing you over. Would you be surprised? shes going out with all these guys but not with you? You cant trust that, like beetle said, a relationship without trust isnt a relationship at all. You can either ask her why she lies, follow her(not to rehab but somewhere where you can easily go like a cafe or something), or just tell her off and break up, there is plenty of fish in the sea, like The computer guy said, and i should know, trust me, you will get another girl :wink:

Really, all relationships are based on communication. What you need to do is talk to your girl. Seriously tell her about the any concerns you might have. Talk it things out with her, see where the conversation takes, and go from there. But, make sure that your LISTENING and also make sure that your being HEARD.

[quote:b601dd34f2="X-Sklusive"]Really, all relationships are based on communication. What you need to do is talk to your girl. Seriously tell her about the any concerns you might have. Talk it things out with her, see where the conversation takes, and go from there. But, make sure that your LISTENING and also make sure that your being HEARD.[/quote:b601dd34f2]

Good point :mrgreen:

Communication is key to aany good relationship, and I think that if you find a person that you can communicate with they might actually be worth your time.

man
dump her lyin ass
unless its a fine rich ass lol