hey I need help wit a new girl that I really like, ok I have only talked to her for like a min and that was like 10 months ago at my ex-girlfriends house and now I really want to talk to her again even though of course I don't know much about her but one of my friends gave me her # and now I want to call her and see hows she doin and if she remembers me and stuff but my ex-girlfriend was a bitch to me and she was really cold hearted so I broke up wit her but the girl I want to call is friends wit her and I'm afraid that my ex has her own version of the story and she might have said stuff to the girl idk but I really want to talk to the girl because I really like her I truly do one more thing I think her # might be unlisted but I really want to talk to her and get to know her and become friends wit her so what should I do? should I call her or not?? !please help me!

The only way your questions will be truly answered is to make contact with the girl and get her response. A personal appearance would be better than a phone call, if possible.
Sometimes it causes problems to date the friend of an X.

As Dan said, see her in person if you can, but if you can't, I think you should call her...whatever you do don't write her a letter... :D

I could ride my bike to her house she lives down a back road behind my house but I don't know if that would be ok to just show up at her house plus my x might be there which wouldn't be good but I think it would be better to call her first to see how she is and how she is wit me and if she even remembers me so yeah

Originally posted by Vilepagan
As Dan said, see her in person if you can, but if you can't, I think you should call her...whatever you do don't write her a letter... :D

LOL!!

Dan and Vile are right. Maybe you could show up where she usually hangs out.

Try and get her Screen Name for instant messenger. It’s not as embarrassing like the phone is, and it doesn’t look like your stalking her, if you “hang out where she usually does”

Well I have her sn but she doesn't go on much anymore because her internet is messed up and she like is never in town so I could ride my bike to her house but I'm not going to do that because I shouldn't so I think the phone is the best bet and I could have my friend ask her if its ok if I call her so those things I could do.

Originally posted by fireknight85
I could have my friend ask her if its ok if I call her so those things I could do.

That's what I'd do. :)

Originally posted by fireknight85
hey I need help wit a new girl that I really like, ok I have only talked to her for like a min and that was like 10 months ago at my ex-girlfriends house and now I really want to talk to her again even though of course I don't know much about her but one of my friends gave me her # and now I want to call her and see hows she doin and if she remembers me and stuff but my ex-girlfriend was a bitch to me and she was really cold hearted so I broke up wit her but the girl I want to call is friends wit her and I'm afraid that my ex has her own version of the story and she might have said stuff to the girl idk but I really want to talk to the girl because I really like her I truly do one more thing I think her # might be unlisted but I really want to talk to her and get to know her and become friends wit her so what should I do? should I call her or not??

That's a really long sentence.

yeah it might be better if I do that but I'm still not sure

10 months and only 1min of conversation, sounds like love :D :D :D

Get a set and go talk to her, the worse thing that could happen is your "1 min. friend" might go tell you to stick your head in a toilet.

On the other side, your "1min friend" may think your kool.