View Full Version : Cat survives arrow through head
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 04:17 PM
http://www.cnn.com/video/player/player.html?url=/video/us/2007/05/24/murphy.one.lucky.cat.wkyc
warning the video is very graphic
CarbonBasedLife
05-24-2007, 04:21 PM
More evidence that cats are evil. They sold their souls for 9 lives.
The Dude
05-24-2007, 04:22 PM
Poor kitty!
Meow!!!
Im glad she is ok :)
jerejerebinks
05-24-2007, 04:27 PM
I knew this had to be a thread started by Warrior as soon as I seen the title.
paulc
05-24-2007, 04:30 PM
Seen a cat today,looked like it had used its 9th life, it was spread all over the road.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 04:31 PM
because it was about animals or because I spelled something wrong?
jerejerebinks
05-24-2007, 04:35 PM
because it was about animals or because I spelled something wrong?
Because it's not important enough to be in a World News forum. Just because something is listed in a CNN.com archive - doesn't make it "World News." If you wished to post something like this Chat Central would have been the only quasi-logical place for it.
500lbguerilla
05-24-2007, 04:36 PM
If some asshole shot me with an arrow I'd feel lucky too. Its like a bird shitting on you but about a 1000 times luckier...
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 04:39 PM
I got it from a news site. CNN it is not science, it is not TV and there is no animal forum for it. I think it is amazing that the cat survived animal abuse I think it is new worthy.
If the mods thinks it does not belong here they can move it.
It seems every post I make news worthy or not is either not news or in the wrong section. Yet other posters can make the exact same post and no one says anything to them?
Now I am allowed 5 posts a day and if I post them in the wrong spot on accident talk to a moderater and have it moved to the proper place otherwise leave me alone and stop picking at stupid shit about me.
500lbguerilla
05-24-2007, 04:39 PM
Because it's not important enough to be in a World News forum. Just because something is listed in a CNN.com archive - doesn't make it "World News." If you wished to post something like this Chat Central would have been the only quasi-logical place for it. lets see...
Trump gets fired
Cat shot with arrow
Father microwaves baby
Handicap in wheelchair
WORLD NEWS? no...
polical news? hardly...
Now I am allowed 5 posts a day and if I post them in the wrong spot on accident talk to a moderater and have it moved to the proper place otherwise leave me alone and stop picking at stupid shit about me.fucking christ woman...I just sent you a PM like 10 minutes ago on common courtesy and you pull this crap...How bout you quit complaining about being 'picked on' and spend more then 2 seconds thinking about where to put threads. We have sections for reason.
What if your kid started putting plates under the bathroom sink and when you said "thats not where plates go, put them here in the kitchen" and instead of listening your kids says "fuck you mom, you don't like where I put the plates you fix it. quit hassling me".
No that wouldn't happen because 5 years olds are usually more mature then that...you on the other hand...
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 04:42 PM
yet no moderaters do not move the topics? I find this stuff on News sites that makes them news. If you don't like them don't read them. Vile said I can post 5 topics a day if you don't like that talk to him. I am quiet within my right to put these topics in news forum when I get them from news sites like CNN and Yahoo news.
stop making excuses to harasse me.
Go talk to a moderator and stop holding me to a different standard than other people.
paulc
05-24-2007, 04:44 PM
Ah fuck it. Weres the TV box.
500lbguerilla
05-24-2007, 04:45 PM
Just in case you missed it...
fucking christ woman...I just sent you a PM like 10 minutes ago on common courtesy and you pull this crap...How bout you quit complaining about being 'picked on' and spend more then 2 seconds thinking about where to put threads. We have sections for reason.
What if your kid started putting plates under the bathroom sink and when you said "thats not where plates go, put them here in the kitchen" and instead of listening your kids says "fuck you mom, you don't like where I put the plates you fix it. quit hassling me".
No that wouldn't happen because 5 years olds are usually more mature then that...you on the other hand...
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 04:53 PM
umm that does not since. I did not tell you to fuck off I told you to tell the moderators they would be the true parents here not you. You are the equivalent of a sibling starting fights with your sister. You are telling me to put these topics in places I do not believe they belong. I said talk to the parent about it...the moderaters. If they want it moved they can move it and tell me where it goes properly because I believe they belong here because I got them from news sites. THey are news to CNN and Yahoo news. I do not know how you someone who is not a reporter can say what qualifies or not qualifies as news.
Thank you for your time.
Please discuss this issue with the moderator.
I cannot make it to you in any more politely.
jerejerebinks
05-24-2007, 05:01 PM
Warrior -
I'm not holding you to any different standards than I do anyone else on this board. If it were Borg, Vile, Lionel, Travh, or even Drew himself and they were posting nonsense like you do day in and day out - I would call them out on it as well. Vile has told me to back off you because I am a moderator and should'nt show any bias towards one member over another. The thing is this: no one else floods any forum with topics not related to that forum like you do. I can see one or two slip ups along the way - but when you repeatedly fill a section as important as "World News" with off beat filler stories that you found on CNN (many of which that are out of date and archived) over and over - you just prove that you have no real respect or concern for the forum or the other members here.
Why do you think Vile had to limit your number of posts?
500lbguerilla
05-24-2007, 05:06 PM
I cannot make it to you in any more politely. whats that? You cannot tell me or jerejere more politly to "fuck off" thanks...
Jerejere pointed out its misplaced. You then asserted your right to post what you want where you want and the mods can deal with the consequences. That is the 'polite' "i don't care, fuck off" messege.
I do not know how you someone who is not a reporter can say what qualifies or not qualifies as news. I don't know how you, someone who is not politician, can comment on how the country should be run...See how stupid that sounds?
Please discuss this issue with the moderator. Jere is a moderator...sigh
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 05:06 PM
yes he limited me post and now you are limiting what I can post about. You are censoring me. He said 5 post a day no one says that stuff is off limits to post. You are restricting my freedom of speech for not other reason than you do not like me personally or my ideas and concepts. Posting about beer falling on the road is just as frivioulous as me posting about a cat surviving an arrow through its head but you don't question thier posts? I am being singled out for nothing more than my opinion. You just don't want me getting the attention of my posts here and trying to put them and area that is not high in traffic to try and silence my free speech.
You are discriminating against me and singling me out.
IT is very obvious that you are bias against me.
500lbguerilla
05-24-2007, 05:08 PM
And if you couldn't tell I'm not all that polite. I don't tapdance, I tell you what I mean.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 05:10 PM
whats that? You cannot tell me or jerejere more politly to "fuck off" thanks...
Jerejere pointed out its misplaced. You then asserted your right to post what you want where you want and the mods can deal with the consequences. That is the 'polite' "i don't care, fuck off" messege.
I don't know how you, someone who is not politician, can comment on how the country should be run...See how stupid that sounds?
Jere is a moderator...sigh
Now you are putting words in my mouth. I never said to fuck off. I said to stop harassing me about frivioulous stuff again someone post a topic of beer falling on the road but that is not singled out but I am. I only make 5 topics of new a day. I mean seriously do you know how anal you are being to me on something so stupid. If there was an animal section I would put it there but there is not animal section and I think it is news when a cat survives an arrow through it's head. If I am asked to move this thread to chat than so should the beer thread be moved.
stop holding me to a different standard than other people on the board.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 05:12 PM
And if you couldn't tell I'm not all that polite. I don't tapdance, I tell you what I mean.
Yes which I find is funny because if I am rude like you I get banned but you are allowed to say anything you want and nothing happens to you.
FUNNY.. that you get a free pass
500lbguerilla
05-24-2007, 05:14 PM
yes he limited me post and now you are limiting what I can post about. You are censoring me. No, he's not. He's saying put it wher it belongs and your acting like a 2 year old.
Posting about beer falling on the road is just as frivioulous as me posting about a cat surviving an arrow through its head but you don't question thier posts? yes it is. The only difference is that it was posted for humors sake and ES doesn't post crap every single day. When you do something every single day people have a far lower tolerence for it.
You just don't want me getting the attention of my posts here and trying to put them and area that is not high in traffic to try and silence my free speech. Chat central is far higher traffic.
IT is very obvious that you are bias against me. It is very obvious that you cannot deal with any amount of criticism, don't care about SHAREING this space with other posters, and have a persecution complex.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 05:18 PM
I am not acting like a 2 year old you are for getting on me for something so stupid. Block me if you do not want to read my post. For humors sake that means it belongs in the humor section again he is told to move his post.
I post in the news forum what is in the news for the day. I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. How do you say the stuff I post is not news when I get them from CNN and Yahoo NEWS!!!???
You are not making since.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 05:19 PM
sense
500lbguerilla
05-24-2007, 05:20 PM
Yes which I find is funny because if I am rude like you I get banned but you are allowed to say anything you want and nothing happens to you.
FUNNY.. that you get a free pass I've been here 2 1/2 years woman. I am an established part of this community. And while many people do not like my posts (mainly because they highly disagree with them) You have managed to piss off virtually every single member of these boards in a month.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 05:23 PM
not true I never have a problem with dharma, overdose,brooks,freethinker and many others.
Stop trying to make me out to be the bad guys. The only people I get into fights with who personally attack me or threaten me or my children.
Jester
05-24-2007, 05:44 PM
not true I never have a problem with dharma, overdose,brooks,freethinker and many others.
Perhaps, but I must point that you've had problems with more people than any other regular member. I would advise you to ponder over why that is.
Stop trying to make me out to be the bad guys. The only people I get into fights with who personally attack me or threaten me or my children.???
Who threatened your children?
OldPhart
05-24-2007, 05:50 PM
You are restricting my freedom of speech for not other reason than you do not like me personally or my ideas and concepts.
You just don't want me getting the attention of my posts here and trying to put them and area that is not high in traffic to try and silence my free speech.
You would do well to remember that there is no such thing as "freedom of speech" per se, on allforums. We are here as guests of Drew, and are moderated by a few people (which I think do a very commendable job).
If you feel you are being "picked on" and your "free speech rights have been usurped", then I would suggest you go elsewhere. Like 500lb said, most of us have been here for quite some time - and it seems you have gotten under a copious number of allforums member's skin. Quite an accomplishment actually, that you have trolled your way into so many people's "Oh god, not them again" list in such a short period of time. Congratulations!
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 05:54 PM
smartmouth woman did because I commite blasmaphy of her god She said god would send someone to punish my kids for my sins that I deserved more than what words she could do to me.
I agree I don't get along with everone. I am a very polorizing person. I have strong opinions and I stick to my guns. There is not a crime against debating topics that are highly contriversal considering this is a debate board. I am not here to make friends or have everyone like me I am here to debate the tough topics and say my piece. I have no problem with anyone debating with me or disagreeing with me I do have a problem when people personally attack me or threaten me or my kids because they don't like how I think. I do not like people trying to sensor me or shut me up because they do not like my view. I try to follow the rules the best I can I cannot help it that I am annoying I do not mean to be I just discussing new news topics everyday. I am not trying to purposely be annoying or trying to piss people off. I am trying to be "me". I don't try to be fake or phony or write what people want me to say just to keep the water calm. I say what is on my mind and I share my opinion. I am just being "me" I am telling the truth about how I feel about things nothing more. I have no hidden agenda to purposely hurt people though I do sometimes but is not my goal.
My goal is to speak the truth as I see it.
To post news topics that I think are important. Whether you agree it qualifies as news or not is your personal opinion I do not see how articles from a news site like CNN or Yahoo News is not news!!??
I am sorry if I honestly do not get how you are thinking here.
Stop putting restrictions on me and censoring me because you do not like what I have go to say.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 05:59 PM
You would do well to remember that there is no such thing as "freedom of speech" per se, on allforums. We are here as guests of Drew, and are moderated by a few people (which I think do a very commendable job).
If you feel you are being "picked on" and your "free speech rights have been usurped", then I would suggest you go elsewhere. Like 500lb said, most of us have been here for quite some time - and it seems you have gotten under a copious number of allforums member's skin. Quite an accomplishment actually, that you have trolled your way into so many people's "Oh god, not them again" list in such a short period of time. Congratulations!
Vile nor Borg has not said anything about the topics that I post in the news forum. Please explain to me what qualifies as news if articles from news sites like CNN and Yahoo news are not news?
All I am asking to define what NEWS is? and if Vile or Borg want topics moved they will move them or they will PM me that I need to post in other section and explain what specifically I am doing wrong.
Again why is beer being dumped on the road more news worthy than my post about a cat surviving an arrow through the head??
I am not going anywhere. I will not be harrassed or bullied off the board or threatend off the board.
If I break rules I will get banned. I try my best to follow rules.
I ask again what is considered NEWS if articles from News sites like CNN and Yahoo News are not considered news worthy to you. What the hell qualifies as news??
Phyrex
05-24-2007, 06:10 PM
Ask yourself this, "Would this story make it into the first 25 minutes of a 30 minute news cast?" If you answer no, don't bother, or put in chat central. Most of these stories you post would get like a 30 second time slot right at the end of a news cast.
Most of the things you post in here are not World News, Warrior. Of course other people will post some random topic in here every now and again, but not like you do. You post 5 a day in here, cause that is your "limit". I mean you were so bad they had to impose a limit on you. C'mon now. Not only that, but 35 posts a day?!?!? Geeeyawd. This is not a personal attack, so please don't take it as such, I've never said a thing to you until today. But, I have to agree with what most of the others say. Please have a little common courtesy.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 06:15 PM
the 35 post a day is because of me defending myself against personal attacks not just making random post. It has slowed down alot since the mods have cracked down on peoples behavior.
I do not pick random topics. There is no spot for U.S News, Entertainment news, Animals news so I put them here in world news which includes U.S News and animal news.
I will post from now on only topics from world news of CNN and Yahoo news and I sware to you people will still complain. Becuase they are not making legitmate complaints they are creating frivioulous complaints just to harasse me just as they did about my spelling.
Napsterbater
05-24-2007, 06:17 PM
I never have a problem with dharma,
It's a damn good thing too, otherwise we'd never get any peace. As if you could call the way things are now, "peace."
OldPhart
05-24-2007, 06:23 PM
smartmouth woman did because I commite blasmaphy of her god She said god would send someone to punish my kids for my sins that I deserved more than what words she could do to me.
No she did not... she quoted some biblical scripture (like you have done) and you took it as a personal threat
I agree I don't get along with everone. I am a very polorizing person.
No, you are antagonistic and desire to stir up dissention... not debate.
I have strong opinions and I stick to my guns. There is not a crime against debating topics that are highly contriversal considering this is a debate board. I am not here to make friends or have everyone like me I am here to debate the tough topics and say my piece.
I assume a cat shot with an arrow is a tough topic?
I have no problem with anyone debating with me or disagreeing with me I do have a problem when people personally attack me or threaten me or my kids because they don't like how I think. I do not like people trying to sensor me or shut me up because they do not like my view. I try to follow the rules the best I can I cannot help it that I am annoying I do not mean to be I just discussing new news topics everyday.
It's not what you think, it's the poor way you express yourself that pisses people off.
I am not trying to purposely be annoying or trying to piss people off. I am trying to be "me". I don't try to be fake or phony or write what people want me to say just to keep the water calm. I say what is on my mind and I share my opinion. I am just being "me" I am telling the truth about how I feel about things nothing more. I have no hidden agenda to purposely hurt people though I do sometimes but is not my goal.
I call bullshit on the last sentence... I remember reading that you like to antagonize people in one of your many rambling posts (that were not just cut and paste extravaganzas).
My goal is to speak the truth as I see it.
To post news topics that I think are important. Whether you agree it qualifies as news or not is your personal opinion I do not see how articles from a news site like CNN or Yahoo News is not news!!??
I am sorry if I honestly do not get how you are thinking here.
Stop putting restrictions on me and censoring me because you do not like what I have go to say.
Again, the cat shot with an arrow is important? Actually the only restriction that I would suggest for you... would be the cancellation of the ability to log on to this site. Of course, I am an intolerant ass... like: Sal, Imp, SMW, 500lb, Sparky2, Frogger, Phyrex, Jester, ... errrrr.... emmmm......most of the other posters here?
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 06:34 PM
my agenda is not to antagonize people that simply is not true. I am not out to hurt and specific person. I never said I am here to atagnoize people please post where I said that. I said that I like debate because it is two different opinions and and it stimulates me. I like the resistance and friction of a good debate not hurting peoples feelings. I do not like doing that but I will not deny the truth as I see it.
I am sorry that I am a poor communicator sue me so is half th people on this board?? The poor way I express myself is only lack of understanding how to communicate with more tact it is out of ignorance not malice.
Stop trying to make it out that I am malice against people that I purposely try to upset people. People get upset with the way I say things I am sorry but I try to be "me" authentically me. I do not put on a social mask.
maybe I am a bad communicator but making personal attacks on me or threatening to get me banned for try to run me off the board is not going to teach me a lesson it will only make me resist what you are trying to say.
If you do not like the way I communicate point it out specifically what I say that is upsetting and we can talk about it instead of jumping is accusing me of malice and intent to hurt people
This is not who I am.
Jester
05-24-2007, 06:38 PM
Warrior, it has nothing to do with your opinions or the topics you discuss. There are lots of controversial topics debated here, and plenty of people here have strong opinions (and stick to them too). However, they are still able to argue their positions without causing conflict between themselves and other members. You, on the other hand, regularly get into nasty arguments with people here, sometimes about things that have nothing to do with the topic being discussed. I've observed why that happens, but I'll let you come to your own conclusion.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 06:43 PM
I get into nasty arguments when people do not stick to the facts and make personal attacks on me. I have not started conflict with people they start it with me and I defend myself. I am posting along and saying my opinion and instead of them refuting my claim with a logical post they will call me things like pycho, twisted,troll, uneducated, that I will hurt my kids and other crap that I will not tolerate. Excuse me for defending myself.
People do not like the opinions I have about things and that is fine. Debate it but don't attack me personally or you are in for a fight.
My conclusion is people cannot stay on topic and discuss the issues they have to get revenge for me not belieive the way they do and they try to get emotionally even with me my attacking me.
TurdFerguson
05-24-2007, 06:45 PM
Wow.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 06:46 PM
"However, they are still able to argue their positions without causing conflict between themselves and other members"
I call absolute bullshit on that. because the arguments start when someone personally attacks me and I try to defend myself and than other people not even related to the topic or even being discussed jumps in and starts doing the same thing.
Phyrex
05-24-2007, 06:48 PM
Yeah, I mean I've had plenty of pissing contests with Freethinker, Dharma, Dop, and Liberal but you don't see us calling each other 4 letter words or threatening each others lives or families. I mean I strongly disagree with 99% of what all of those people say, but I and them, and others on this board can discuss things, sometimes heatedly, and then return tomorrow again without any bad blood. You need to have a little tact Warrior.
Jester
05-24-2007, 06:51 PM
I get into nasty arguments when people do not stick to the facts and make personal attacks on me. I have not started conflict with people they start it with me and I defend myself. I am posting along and saying my opinion and instead of them refuting my claim with a logical post they will call me things like pycho, twisted,troll, uneducated, that I will hurt my kids and other crap that I will not tolerate. Excuse me for defending myself.
People do not like the opinions I have about things and that is fine. Debate it but don't attack me personally or you are in for a fight.
My conclusion is people cannot stay on topic and discuss the issues they have to get revenge for me not belieive the way they do and they try to get emotionally even with me my attacking me.You don't think you deserve any blame for it at all? Perhaps that's part of the problem.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 06:52 PM
I never threatened anyone. When did I threaten anyone and I never called anyone a name until they called me a name first. For example Imp called me a dumbass today and I said absolutly nothing to her or against her and she had to jump in a defend Smartmouthwoman after making threats against me and my kids. I retalitated. I have every right to defend myself against attackers and agressors.
There are many many people here who need tact and gurallia is one of them but no one is telling him to have tact?? Why does he get away with being flat out rude to people but I am supose to have tact??
OldPhart
05-24-2007, 06:55 PM
I have every right to defend myself against attackers and agressors.
There are many many people here who need tact and gurallia is one of them but no one is telling him to have tact?? Why does he get away with being flat out rude to people but I am supose to have tact??
500lb does not enter into a battle of wits, unarmed.........
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 06:56 PM
You don't think you deserve any blame for it at all? Perhaps that's part of the problem.
No I do not think that but I am the only one being scape goated her. I am th only one being harassed about stupid stuff like spelling and posting stuff that is not news apparently.
I am held to another standard that other posters here who do the exact same things I do.
Again there are post everyday by people that are not considered new from what you claim is news but no one ever says anything to them.
Only me.
Other people are allowed to be rude and obnoxous like Gurillas but If I do I am singled out.
It takes two to tango and if you are claiming that I post stuff to start trouble than that qualifies half the people on this board.
I try my best to follow the rules. I sometimes fail. I apologize. If I am annoying I am sorry I do not mean to be. If I do not have tact I am sorry please show me how to get tact??
but stop pointing out my flaws when others do the exact same thing but no one ever says anything to them about it.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 06:58 PM
500lb does not enter into a battle of wits, unarmed.........
unarmed? what is that suppose to mean. I defend my post with logic and links.
Is that an excuse to abuse me? because I am unarmed? whatever that is suppose to mean?
sedan
05-24-2007, 07:02 PM
There are many many people here who need tact and gurallia is one of them but no one is telling him to have tact?? Why does he get away with being flat out rude to people but I am supose to have tact??What the hell are you talking about?
People call out guerrilla all the time.
The difference is he doesn't turn every thread into a diatribe about how persecuted he is. He answers an insult with an insult and moves on. You hardly ever move on -- that's one reason why people don't like you very much.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 07:06 PM
IF people would leave me alone there wouldn't be a problem. I am sorry I have never seen anyone tell gurilla that he is offensive. Perhaps I just haven't seen it.
I move on all the time but when I do people find something else to complain about me something stupid like this whole thread right here.
It is everyone else not moving on and accepting me as a person instead of trying to harasse me to death all the time over stupid stuff.
Want a debate fine. A personal attack here and there I have ignored on several occassion but the aligations on this thread that I post nonsense all time that is not new when my articles comes from News sites like CNN and yahoo news is ridiculous.
OldPhart
05-24-2007, 07:07 PM
unarmed? what is that suppose to mean. I defend my post with logic and links.
Is that an excuse to abuse me? because I am unarmed? whatever that is suppose to mean?
I'm abusing you?
No, you do that all by yourself (quite well, I might add)
:lolhit:
Phyrex
05-24-2007, 07:18 PM
I think I'm just going to quote Turd here:
"Wow."
Moving right along...
mikezila
05-24-2007, 07:32 PM
I've been here 2 1/2 years woman. I am an established part of this community. And while many people do not like my posts (mainly because they highly disagree with them) You have managed to piss off virtually every single member of these boards in a month.
i highly disagree with your posts, but i still enjoy reading them.:corn:
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 07:33 PM
I'm abusing you?
No, you do that all by yourself (quite well, I might add)
:lolhit:
How am I abusing myself that doesn't make sense. I do not attack myself. I make post and state my opinion and I try very hard not to make personal attacks but that isn't good enough for people.
Again I will post only news from the world section of CNN and Yahoo new and I will post my five new topics that I am allowed in a day and I garentee you you and other people will find yet another minor issue to complain about me.
You watch and see.
:rolleyes:
OldPhart
05-24-2007, 08:13 PM
I rest my case.
warrior1972
05-24-2007, 10:00 PM
yes your case was so clear and consice. Do us a favor and don't represent yourself in a trial or anything leave it up to the professionals.
Jester
05-24-2007, 11:55 PM
No I do not think that but I am the only one being scape goated her. I am th only one being harassed about stupid stuff like spelling and posting stuff that is not news apparently.
I am held to another standard that other posters here who do the exact same things I do.
What possible reason could people have for scapegoating you, and only you, out of all the members of this forum? What's so special about you that makes them hold you to a different standard? I'll answer that for you -- nothing. Dozens of people visit this forum regularly, post their opinions and engage in debate. And yes, personal attacks and criticism are often delivered and returned. Yet people get over them and move on without whining, complaining, or claiming they're being picked on.
The idea that you're being singled out for scapegoating, harassment and double standards doesn't exist anywhere but in your head.
Vilepagan
05-25-2007, 08:53 AM
Ok, a few points. The World News forum often has a few stories in it that would probably be considered "fluff", and that's something we can probably change by adding more news forums. I'll look into it this weekend.
Different people react differently to a perceived insult and that's also something we have to take into account when we address different posters.
Warrior, if I may offer some advice...
There have been a lot of complaints aired but I think they can be boiled down to two basic issues.
1. Tact and courtesy: Warrior, you're a very defensive person. You have a tendency to overreact to a perceived slight. One example would be your statements that SMW "threatened" your children. While I think that her statements about your children were perhaps ill-advised in both timing and content, I don't think she intends any harm to your kids. Repeating this claim makes you seem a tad irrational at times. My advice would be as follows. If you believe someone has insulted you, or said something inappropriate, let them know as calmly and as politely as you can manage. If you feel angry about what someone said, wait a little while before you respond to give yourself some time to cool down. At times the best response can be not to respond at all if your response will just further antagonize someone. I want to be clear here and say that I'm not asking you to "sit back and take it" or to abandon any principles you may have regarding a particular topic, just to consider whether your response to someone will add to the debate, or just add to the conflict. Most of the members here are thoughtful and kind individuals who would be very reluctant to attack someone who was responding to them with decency and tact.
2. Volume and size of posts: Warrior has been here for approximately 40 days, and has amassed what has to be a record-breaking post count in that time. Warrior also seems to have a taste for news stories that might not appear on the front page. We only have one forum dedicated to "News" stories, and it has beem suggested in the past by some posters that we should expand our news forums to include sub-categories of news. I think this is a good idea, and I'll talk to Borg and Drew about it, but as I'm sure you understand, this weekend may or may not be a convenient time to contact them.
That being said warrior, try to look at the issue from the perspective of a long-time poster here. "World News" has been dominated recently by new threads everyday on subjects far more mundane than what might be found on the front page of the NYT. You've expressed your eagerness for debate in several posts and PM's to me, and that's commendable, but it is possible to be "overeager". I think part of the problem is that the volume of your posts can be seen as "monopolizing" the conversation. I have noticed that in some threads you've posted two or three news stories or responses in a row on some topic or another. This makes it difficult or impossible to respond simply due to the number of points that you've made. This is a debate forum, but the best debates have a conversational tone, with give-and-take from a number of people. The pace of these conversations is a bit slower however. If you respond to everybody's posts as soon as they make them it seems you're not giving others a chance to respond. Perhaps you might make a post, and then wait for a response from a few people before adding to your original ideas. Instead of making multiple consecutive posts, if you have something you want to post, write it up in Notepad or somesuch and think about it awhile before you post it so you may add any further thoughts as one post.
When posting news stories, it's always best to post a quote or a paragraph from the story and then a link to the article rather than post the whole article, and if you're looking for discussion, post some comments on the story, not just the story itself.
To everyone: I remember when I first came here I had no idea what this place was all about. I had never participated in an online forum and its workings were a mystery to me. There aren't any hard-and-fast rules here and it will take a while for anyone to understand what is, and isn't, good form. Some people have in the past stated that they lurked as a visitor for awhile, reading posts, before deciding to join. For myself, I just dropped in here one day and was a bit bewildered until I figured out who I wanted to be and how I wished to express myself. I will say that my first post was not well-received. Given time, I found better ways to say what I wished to say, and maybe it's possible that it takes some people a bit longer than others to find a way to fit in here.
warrior1972
05-25-2007, 12:36 PM
Thank you Vile for acknowledging that I am "eager"and not malicious or tying to be rude or annoying to people on purpose.
And thank you of explaining things completely and concisely without attacking me personally.
I can understand this and have no problem now that I understand completely what would help me.
Evakian
05-25-2007, 03:00 PM
I knew this had to be a thread started by Warrior as soon as I seen the title.
As soon as I saw the title I knew it was started by Warrior by default, because 75% of all the threads here are started by her--especially the kind where a cat getting an arrow through the head counts as "world news."
Evakian
05-25-2007, 03:03 PM
--Long message goes here--
There's definitely a problem when you have to address the issue of one poster with such a lengthy post.
TurdFerguson
05-25-2007, 03:08 PM
There's definitely a problem when you have to address the issue of one poster with such a lengthy post.
Yep.