I just e-mailed this guy I've known for a while telling him I have a crush on him. Why did I email him? Because he lives a bit too far away for me to drive and tell him. An ocean and a continent, to be exact. I do realize that nothing will ever come of this, since we're so far away, but I just had to tell him. I never told anyone anywhere that I had a crush on them. This is a sort-of first for me.

Now I wait and see if he still wants to talk to me. Things like this usually weird people out...

Do you guys think it was a good idea for me to tell him or should I have just kept my mouth shut?

If you keep your mouth shut then you will always wonder or say what if. By atleast telling him you will get some type of conclusion whether our not he likes you. So basically what I'm saying is I think it's great you have told him how you feel.

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Anyway relating back to your problem, tell someone how you feel, otherwise you will lose out on so much. I think you did the best thing, and remember some guys are jerks, and always will be. I just wanted to share that, anyways peace

Chris

:D Thanks for your support, guys. And I know a lot about missing out on things...maybe a little too much, but oh well...

He emailed me back and said he kinda likes me too. Which probably means he's not totally sure, but whatever...it's better than him not liking me at all!!! ^_^

I talked to him on IM too. I think he's happy I told him...he seemed like it anyway.

Okay I'll shut up now before I write 3 million paragraphs about what he said. :blush:

I am really happy for ya, I mean its good or in your words Great!

If it doesn't work out, you can always kill him and then yourself. Worked for me!

If you didn't tell him then you would have regretted it later on.
"What fi I did?", "What if I didn't?" or "How would it have turned out?" aren't questions to ponder your whole existence on.
Now, if this is the first time, it is the hardest one. Now this guy must be worth it if you have, had or will have a crush on him.
I think it was the right thing to do to tell him. However, it would had been more special if you broke your savings to drag your candy --- (no offense) over there to tell him personally.

Look at me, I sound like Dr. Love......AAAAAARGH!

I don't murder my ex's. I just ignore them. :D

And I would've gone over there myself, but don't you think that would've been a bit much? Plus it might have scared him. A lot. He lives all the way at Penn State, and I'm in Hawaii. I can barely afford to pay tuition, I have about less than $40 in both my checking and savings, and you want me to go all the way over there? If he lived here it would've been a different story. I would've gone over to his house and told him. But he doesn't, so I did the next best thing. Because this way, if he hadn't felt the same, at least I wouldn't be stuck there with no place to go. *LOL*

Yes yes, I know I'm a loser. =p

There is nothing wrong with the way you did it.

We losers connect on those levels lol

What do you have to lose? If he's an ocean away, who cares?

I also used to be a bit nervous when dealing with members of the opposite sex, but, most of the time, what the heck do you have to lose?