i went out with the guys last night to raise some hell. we went to our favorite watering hole and all the reg's are there hanging out, having a good time. a couple of hours later, i'm king of the table, kicking anyones ass that challenged me to a game of pool. i was on fire until it was interupted by a commotion outside and being curious, we decided to see what the fuck was going on.
out the back door is a deck and from there we could see some guy smacking his bitch around parking lot. i didn't care, most woman need to be smacked, she probably deserved it.
i was just about to go back inside when my buddy grabbed my arm then pointed to the chick. he had kicked her hard in the back of her leg, she was crying and bitching, crawling across the parking lot trying to get to the other side. he was screaming he was going to run her ass over and headed toward his truck. that's when my buddy got my attention.
the fucker crossed the line if he plans on running the bitch over.

i told them to get the girl then i jumped over the railing and got to him in time to pull him out of his truck before he could put it in gear. i beat the fuck out of him until the cops showed up. after dealing with their bullshit, they hauled him away and i went back inside to finish my beer.

that's when things went wrong.

she limped over and thanked me, and bought the house a round. as soon as i seen her eyes, i don't know how to describe it, there was something about her-besides being one hot, totally 10 bitch, i started becoming interested in her and what she was saying. one thing lead to another and i thought she'd be an easy bag so i invited her to my place.
i've never had a problem with taking a chick home, banging the fuck out of her and sending her on her way inthe morning. with her it was different. believe me, i wanted too, after she cleaned herself up she was quite the dish. we ended up talking for awhile then ended up going to bed, but i didn't fuck her. she's still sleeping and i'm going back to bed, but i wonder,

what the fuck is wrong with me?

i went out with the guys last night to raise some hell. we went to our favorite watering hole and all the reg's are there hanging out, having a good time. a couple of hours later, i'm king of the table, kicking anyones ass that challenged me to a game of pool. i was on fire until it was interupted by a commotion outside and being curious, we decided to see what the fuck was going on.
out the back door is a deck and from there we could see some guy smacking his bitch around parking lot. i didn't care, most woman need to be smacked, she probably deserved it.
i was just about to go back inside when my buddy grabbed my arm then pointed to the chick. he had kicked her hard in the back of her leg, she was crying and bitching, crawling across the parking lot trying to get to the other side. he was screaming he was going to run her ass over and headed toward his truck. that's when my buddy got my attention.
the fucker crossed the line if he plans on running the bitch over.

i told them to get the girl then i jumped over the railing and got to him in time to pull him out of his truck before he could put it in gear. i beat the fuck out of him until the cops showed up. after dealing with their bullshit, they hauled him away and i went back inside to finish my beer.

that's when things went wrong.

she limped over and thanked me, and bought the house a round. as soon as i seen her eyes, i don't know how to describe it, there was something about her-besides being one hot, totally 10 bitch, i started becoming interested in her and what she was saying. one thing lead to another and i thought she'd be an easy bag so i invited her to my place.
i've never had a problem with taking a chick home, banging the fuck out of her and sending her on her way inthe morning. with her it was different. believe me, i wanted too, after she cleaned herself up she was quite the dish. we ended up talking for awhile then ended up going to bed, but i didn't fuck her. she's still sleeping and i'm going back to bed, but i wonder,

what the fuck is wrong with me?
It's just a thought, but it sounds like you're growing up

It's just a thought, but it sounds like you're growing up


i hate when that happens

Yeah he found a girl that meet his match. Yes I have to agree maturity or just a girl that has earned your respect. If you keep it up you might just find out how good it can be. You get more flies with honey then vinegar. Go back to bed and enjoy you never know what the morning will bring.;)

"Found a girl that was his match?" Give me a fucking break. You don't know that shit until after you've been seeing a girl for awhile. You don't earn a guys respect by getting the shit kicked out of you. You might make him feel sorry for you, but only a fucking pussy would actually respect a woman who will date a guy so fucking loopy that he'd run her over with a truck. Why do women fall for these nutjobs? Because they're idiots. If you try being nice to her, she'll just run back to that fuckstick and beg to be beaten again. No self-respecting guy would have any respect for her or the guy she's with.

She was probably just so hot and so vulnerable that you just didn't feel like taking advantage of her. Your loss dude, make up for it soon, when the time is right and she's in proper control of her facilities. By all means keep fucking her, just don't be surprised when she runs back to him.

what the fuck is wrong with me?
This, for one: "most woman need to be smacked, she probably deserved it."
only a fucking pussy would actually respect a woman who will date a guy so fucking loopy that he'd run her over with a truck. Why do women fall for these nutjobs? Because they're idiots. If you try being nice to her, she'll just run back to that fuckstick and beg to be beaten again.
Not necessarily. Maybe this is the first nutty occurrence by the abusive boyfriend, a.k.a. Mr. Fuckstick? Maybe because of it, she isn't ever going to get even close to Mr. Fuckstick? You never know. Personally, I think the chick will be better off without Mr. Fuckstick and AngelDust here, because the line is not crossed when he threatens to run her over with his truck, though that's horrible. The line was crossed when he hit her, and condoning that behavior makes AngelDust every bit of a misogynistic fuckstick as our Grade A assclown, Mr. Fuckstick.

Hitting a person is assault. End of story.

Maybe this is the first nutty occurrence by the abusive boyfriend, a.k.a. Mr. Fuckstick?

You believe that? I call bullshit.

Guys don't just pull girls out in the streets and beat them, then run them over. Domestic violence escalates. If a woman doesn't demand respect from a guy, and keeps putting up with abuse, eventually he will escalate to this level, if he's a low-life son-of-a-bitch. Trust me, that wasn't the first time he kicked the shit out of her.

WOMEN DO NOT NEED TO PUT UP WITH THAT SHIT!! If they do, that means they're retarded and undateable. Nutjobs draw each other together.

This, for one: "most woman need to be smacked, she probably deserved it."

There's nothing wrong with hitting women. Lots of women will leave you if they don't get their weekly quotas of smacks, and I'm not talking about Kelloggs. It lets them know they can't walk all over you, and gives them that sense of drama they just love. I would never hit women, unless they hit me first, because I would rather kick a drama-hungry bitch to the curb than put up with her, but smacking a woman once in a while lets them know you're still interested in them, like them as people, and want them in your life. They just demand it.

Lots of geeks and feminist-brainwashed losers will disagree with me, say women don't demand it, claim I don't understand love, or whatever, but it's those same losers I see in bars all the time pissing and moaning about how their wives don't let them do anything, how they hate their jobs and they don't have any money because the wifey takes it all, and put stupid women on high pedestals and then become angst-ridden losers when those women don't return their affections.

There's two major errors in your reply,
Nap.

1. It is wrong to hit women.
2. women don't demand to be hit.

I recall when an ex boyfriend--note the word "ex"- gave me a shove for not having his dinner cooked on time.
My response was to smash him over the head with a telephone, then step over his prostrate and sorry bod. Like the dog he was. His crap was gone the next day.

I would imagine there's similar tales from the women posters on this board.
A guy hits you, hit him back--HARD. Then dump him.

Let him pull such crap with someone maybe a little "nicer".--like Ray Lewis.

what the fuck is wrong with me?

You're a dickhead for thinking a woman deserves to get hit. Although you're not totally useless, at least you stop the guy from running her over.
I'd suggest you leave her alone. She must have enough shit going on in her life, I doubt she needs your abuse also.


I would imagine there's similar tales from the women posters on this board.
A guy hits you, hit him back--HARD. Then dump him.

Let him pull such crap with someone maybe a little "nicer".--like Ray Lewis.
My ex hit me once. He came home drunk, seen a hickey on my neck he had forgotten HE had given me, and next thing I know it was lights out. I never deserved it OR asked for it.
He paid dearly for it. I destroyed the place and burnt his shit on the front yard, and that doesn't include the ass whipping he got from some of my friends.
Any man that hits a woman is a piece of shit in my book.

A guy hits you, hit him back--HARD. Then dump him.

PLEASE. I'm fucking sick of women putting up with this shit.

I know it's wrong. I fucking hate it too. But it won't stop until women stop putting up with it.

But don't expect your ass to go unharmed if you think hitting me is okay. I don't put up with it either. I will hit back, and harder. I don't care how many of your friends I have to kick the shit out of.

Personally, I think the chick will be better off without Mr. Fuckstick and AngelDust here, because the line is not crossed when he threatens to run her over with his truck, though that's horrible. The line was crossed when he hit her, and condoning that behavior makes AngelDust every bit of a misogynistic fuckstick as our Grade A assclown, Mr. Fuckstick.

Hitting a person is assault. End of story.

fuck you, dickface. the only time i stop fights is when i'm working as a bouncer, other then that, it's between them. i didn't know what his beef was with her and didn't think it was my business.
i have a fucked up arm where he slammed the door on it ,a black eye and gash because he threw a fucking hammer at me and nailed me in the face. i did the right thing stopping him then. before that i had no reason to step in.

working as a bouncer i'll tell you what. there are big ass fucking dyke whores that like to step up to a man, especialy when they are drunk. women can fight back for themselves and i don't have to be their hero. i'd gladly pound one down too if she gets out of control.

Little wonder that so many wind up on Springer with what we're seeing posted here. Be it Napsterbater the wannabe pimp, or AngelDust the bouncing boy - what stellar examples of early 21st Century cretins they are.

Lots of geeks and feminist-brainwashed losers will disagree with me, say women don't demand it, claim I don't understand love, or whatever, but it's those same losers I see in bars all the time pissing and moaning about how their wives don't let them do anything, how they hate their jobs and they don't have any money because the wifey takes it all, and put stupid women on high pedestals and then become angst-ridden losers when those women don't return their affections.
my dad was like that. he never hit my mom , and believe me, there were times she needed it. she sat around and became a fatass then cried to him she wanted stomach surgery. he put up with her shit and she had him so pussy whipped, she broke him. he busted his nuts to pay for it for her. after her surgery, dad sucked off a shotgun in front of us both. a month later mom died because she quit eating because she was depressed, even though the doctor told her to eat, she wouldn't. i blame the bitch for breaking my dad and there is no fucking way i'll ever let a woman have that much control over me.
he should of smacked her around. things would be different.

Any man that hits a woman is a piece of shit in my book.
come sit on my lap and tell me all about it. i'm all ears.

Little wonder that so many wind up on Springer with what we're seeing posted here. Be it Napsterbater the wannabe pimp, or AngelDust the bouncing boy - what stellar examples of early 21st Century cretins they are.
hark. the voice of someone who is pussy whipped.

listen guys. i'd love to hang out tonight and discuss this, but i have a hot bitch cooking my supper and need to save my energy for tonight. i'm going to pound her alright, right between her legs. heh.

Little wonder that so many wind up on Springer with what we're seeing posted here. Be it Napsterbater the wannabe pimp, or AngelDust the bouncing boy - what stellar examples of early 21st Century cretins they are.

What a fucking loser. You wanna hang out? Meet me at Chocolate on I-85 and Shallowford sometime. I'm there all the time. Make sure you clear it with your wife first though... wouldn't want her mad at you. I'd hate to have you sleeping in a dog house on my account.

my dad was like that. he never hit my mom , and believe me, there were times she needed it. she sat around and became a fatass then cried to him she wanted stomach surgery. he put up with her shit and she had him so pussy whipped, she broke him. he busted his nuts to pay for it for her. after her surgery, dad sucked off a shotgun in front of us both. a month later mom died because she quit eating because she was depressed, even though the doctor told her to eat, she wouldn't. i blame the bitch for breaking my dad and there is no fucking way i'll ever let a woman have that much control over me.
he should of smacked her around. things would be different.
There is a huge, huge, huge difference between being assertive in your needs in a relationship, and domestic violence. Hitting a woman doesn't make you "the man in the relationship"; it makes you a grade A asshole. Maybe a stint as Bubba's cellmate will teach you a bit about compassion, as your very own asshole will be violated by him.
fuck you, dickface. the only time i stop fights is when i'm working as a bouncer, other then that, it's between them. i didn't know what his beef was with her and didn't think it was my business.
i have a fucked up arm where he slammed the door on it ,a black eye and gash because he threw a fucking hammer at me and nailed me in the face. i did the right thing stopping him then. before that i had no reason to step in.
I know that. I'm not saying you had any obligation to stop the dude; I'm saying that by stating that his behavior is okay, you're no better than he, except you didn't want to see her killed.

Little wonder that so many wind up on Springer with what we're seeing posted here.
Funny, I was thinking the same thing. Never been hit, never hit a man (well except my brother when I was a teen). There's abuse long before they hit you. If someone respects themself and is in control of themself there is zero need to get physical period. Any man even raised his voice to me, it would be THE last time. Disrespect can be felt, if it exists, time to move on.

If someone respects themself and is in control of themself there is zero need to get physical period.

The vast majority of people in this country, or the world do not. Hence the need to get physical. It's ever so lovely to believe that everyone can have a perfect relationship. Well, there aren't any. Very few relationships in this country are built on love and trust. Most are built on convenience. The balance of power is so far out of whack in most people's relationships that it's a wonder the human race can procreate at all.

People find other people they want to fuck. They fuck, until the female gets pregnant. Then they get married. After they get bored of each other, they have to find some way of keeping themselves interested. Women start getting controlling, men start turning into assholes. Lack of respect runs both ways, it is completely unfair to pin it all on the man. Sometimes they get divorced, sometimes they stick it out for the kids, who would have probably been better served with one parent.

I don't think smart people can quite understand how those who aren't as smart as themselves get by in life. They're always too happy to perscribe happy feel-good solutions to gaping social wounds. Like the maxim, "Don't hit women." Sounds great, in theory. I personally would never hit a woman. I have better means of dealing with stupidity. But they don't tell guys what to do when the situation at hand demands it, like AngelDust's story illustrates. I guarandamntee you that controlling, nasty, ugly women are far, far, far more prevalent than wife beating men. It's one of those ugly problems that doesn't catch the front pages of newspapers. And worse, it's actually condoned in some circles.

How many groups are there that advocate the male position in domestic politics that get taken seriously? None. The authors are far and few between who are dealing with this issue. They get drowned out by all the fag hags who've never witnessed a broken household in person in their entire lives denouncing all men as horrendous Neanderthals.

What is a guy going to do when he's stuck in a marriage with a woman who turned out to be a fucking freak show and a half demanding all kinds of shit she has no right to? Divorce her and get fucked in half by the broken, worthless family law system? A guy has to deal with this shit. I say, smack the bitch around some, let her know who's boss.

Yes, I know any guy who even so much as raised his voice to any of you smart, head-in-the-sand feminazis, would get his head ripped off and handed back to him. I ain't worried about you.

I'm worried about the sweet, unassuming girl who "loves her guy so much," but puts up with him beating the fuck out of her. I don't feel sorry for that girl. No! She puts up with the shit! She doesn't complain about it to her friends or loved ones! She isn't calling the cops as it gets worse and worse! I don't buy into the "women are always the victim" mindset. No. She enables his addictions! It takes two to make a co-dependent relationship!

She gives every single self-respecting American man who's trapped in a situation he neither wanted nor prepared for and tries to salvage a little self-respect by fighting back a bad name by letting the media latch on to the victim complex and further de-ball the American male.

She makes it worse and worse on guys and polarizes the debate on gender equality in the United States. I have absolutely no respect for these self-hating douchebags and wish upon every one of them the beatings they are deservedly getting by not speaking up and doing their part to curb domestic violence.

I'll tell you what's wrong with you. You're a low life asshole. That's what's wrong with you.

Any man who thinks women deserve to be beat up by men is a piece of shit in my book. Any man who thinks that way and brags about it is a dumb piece of shit.

hark. the voice of someone who is pussy whipped.

listen guys. i'd love to hang out tonight and discuss this, but i have a hot bitch cooking my supper and need to save my energy for tonight. i'm going to pound her alright, right between her legs. heh.

It has been my experience that those who do the most bragging do the least shagging. I'll bet angeldust is some pimply faced teenager who's only girlfriends are Mary Thumb and her four daughters.

my dad was like that. he never hit my mom , and believe me, there were times she needed it. she sat around and became a fatass then cried to him she wanted stomach surgery. he put up with her shit and she had him so pussy whipped, she broke him.
She broke him? Without hitting him right?

You just made my point for me, you don't have to be physical to have power in a relationship (which is what it appears that you want), but personally I don't think good relationships require you to be in power.

There are many forms of 'power'. The only form of 'power' that I feel one should exert comes from making yourself into what others would admire. If you become successful in business, or in politics, or you become highly intellectual, or you build up great physique / strength etc.... People will admire you for what you have achieved for yourself, and they will respect you for it. If you're looking for fear, thats a different thing. Personally, I don't want my friends to fear me. I have never seen a good relationship that was built on fear - I've never seen a person willing to die for someone because they feared them.

I'll tell you what's wrong with you. You're a low life asshole. That's what's wrong with you.

It's an open invitation, come out to Atlanta to meet the real Nappy.

The greatest thing about idiots like you is how you can avoid the real meat of the matter by harping on some minor, useless points. Self-perpetuated ignorance is the best kind of all!

I do not care to live up to all the expectations demanded of me by the things that I say. I just say them and expect to be hated. You are the worst kind of idiot. The kind that would witness subtle, yet no less horrible forms of human treachery and say nothing, while listening to every vocal idiot out there with a cause to pimp and money to make.

Women have plenty of advocates in this society. It's about damn time someone stood up for men.

You just made my point for me, you don't have to be physical to have power in a relationship (which is what it appears that you want), but personally I don't think good relationships require you to be in power.

First of all, we aren't talking about good relationships here. Good relationships aren't what we're trying to fix! Few of the people involved in these cases have these skills or can acquire them easily. I can. Maybe you can. Most men cannot. Women from day one are schooled in subtle means of control. Once they get married, they use that power to exert control of a relationship and many guys have no defenses, often finding themselves at the mercy of a verbally abusive, vindictive spouse, who uses her kids, her tears, and her cunt to exact revenge out of the guy for God knows what.

What the fuck is a guy to do in this situation?

although I find reading AngelDusts posts in this thread quite entertaining - I doubt any of the "stories" are real, or if they are real then the truth will probably be somehwhat different

I could be wrong.

I love how people seem to think they are capable of judging such things based on what they say on the internet. I think they project their own inadequacies on everybody else.

I've seen, met, interacted with folks who were capable of landing chicks left and right. Every day I saw them, they were talking up some new girl with bone-stirring intent. The one thing that they all shared was this certain cockiness. Not cocky like me. I'm too cerebral to be sexy. Only gay guys and fifteen year old girls hit on me. Cocky like AngelDust. Gals just melt for guys like that, particularly the really pretty ones. I have no trouble believing him.

There's only two guys in this entire forum who I think have any sort of aptitude whatsoever at picking up chicks. AngelDust, and Frogger. Everybody else in this forum with the exception of Sparky comes across as frustrated. And Frogger's too stupid to realize why he's good at picking them up.

First of all, we aren't talking about good relationships here. Good relationships aren't what we're trying to fix! The good relationships part was a side-note. In the offchance that you or angel might want a good relationship.
Few of the people involved in these cases have these skills or can acquire them easily. I can. Maybe you can. Most men cannot.
You're trying to say that most men cannot find ONE niche where they stand out? Anything that they can do well at? I don't believe that for a second. It may take some people more time than others, but they can still be good at something that most are not.

Women from day one are schooled in subtle means of control. How? What means of control? There are just as many ways of controlling a girl as there are to control a guy. Sex works both ways, girls want it too. Manipulation does too.

Once they get married, they use that power to exert control of a relationship and many guys have no defenses, often finding themselves at the mercy of a verbally abusive, vindictive spouse, who uses her kids, her tears, and her cunt to exact revenge out of the guy for God knows what.

What the fuck is a guy to do in this situation?
I don't believe you for a second when you say that men have no defenses against the manipulation of women. Sheer spinelessness allows those women to control those men, and it goes both ways.

btw, what would a girl do in that situation?

There's only two guys in this entire forum who I think have any sort of aptitude whatsoever at picking up chicks. AngelDust, and Frogger. Everybody else in this forum with the exception of Sparky comes across as frustrated. And Frogger's too stupid to realize why he's good at picking them up.
You don't put yourself up there on that list too? I'm disappointed napster!


On a related note, you're right - being a bit of an asshole to girls works wonders. I've done the niceguy routine and ended up with nothing, been a dick at a bar and gotten what I've wanted everytime. You know why? Because girl's like to see a guy who's confident and can be in charge, but if you keep being that dick, you'll lose the girls as fast as you get them.

You're trying to say that most men cannot find ONE niche where they stand out? Anything that they can do well at? I don't believe that for a second. It may take some people more time than others, but they can still be good at something that most are not.

What are we talking about? I was talking about subtle methods of gaining respect and/or control in human interactions. Men aren't naturally good at that sort of thing. We're dealing with basic biology here.

There are just as many ways of controlling a girl as there are to control a guy.

I know that. You know that. Most men, do not.

I don't believe you for a second when you say that men have no defenses against the manipulation of women.

Evasiveness. Answer the question. It is of great importance to all the pussy-whipped men of the world. Or are you holding your head in the sand just as the others here?

btw, what would a girl do in that situation?

Easy enough. Call her girlfriends. Call the domestic abuse hotline. Bet you forgot that existed, didn't you? They'll get his ass straightened right out. Guys don't have that luxury.

You don't put yourself up there on that list too? I'm disappointed napster!

I'm very aware of my own weaknesses. Enough so that I laugh at other's attempts to point them out for me, like I didn't already know.

Because girl's like to see a guy who's confident and can be in charge, but if you keep being that dick, you'll lose the girls as fast as you get them.

Bullshit. The legions upon legions of domestic violence victims beg to differ. If it were true, there wouldn't be a problem.

Forget about all the other shit... if you beat up a woman who isn't nearly strong enough to fight you back, you're just a fuckin pussy.

Forget about all the other shit...

You would just love that, wouldn't you?

The vast majority of people in this country, or the world do not. Hence the need to get physical. It's ever so lovely to believe that everyone can have a perfect relationship. Well, there aren't any. Very few relationships in this country are built on love and trust. Most are built on convenience.
Nap, that is just untrue. I work with woman….lots and lots of women. Most of those have quite reasonable relationships. Are they with their soul-mate? For most I would say no. But they do love their spouse and feel loved and have a happy functioning relationship.

Lack of respect runs both ways, it is completely unfair to pin it all on the man..
Here’s where my views diverge from the typical feminist. I do believe lack of respect runs both ways. I pin much of the problem on women actually. If a woman is not TOTALLY SELF SUFFICIENT she is doing an injustice to herself because there is already an imbalance of power. If a man controls the purse strings, he controls the relationship and things go down hill from there. Many if not the majority of men have not been raised to know how to deal with that power. Things spiral down from there.

I don't think smart people can quite understand how those who aren't as smart as themselves get by in life. They're always too happy to perscribe happy feel-good solutions to gaping social wounds.
Actually advice is almost always useless unless given at precisely the correct time when the person has hit rock bottom and is begging for it. And even then advising someone without them being able to see how it works in reality is still useless for any but a few. There is no easy solution for most things in this world. There are no happy feel-good solutions. It's always action resulting in pain. When one gets sick of the pain, one finds a way to alter the action. It's that simple and that gut wrenchingly hard.

Yes, I know any guy who even so much as raised his voice to any of you smart, head-in-the-sand feminazis, would get his head ripped off and handed back to him. I ain't worried about you.
No need to rip his head off, a look will do. Beside which those kind of women do not attract voice or hand raising men. That’s why women need to bring to a relationship the knowledge of who they are and what they want. Trust me, I’ve been viewed as a ball breaker before. And it is the furthest thing from the truth. I don’t waste my time or that of a potential partner. I just lay it on the line; exactly what I want and expect and what I am willing to give. Basically I want it ALL but I will give ALL back too. My partner is extremely gentle and understanding and unafraid to show his feminine side. On the other hand when I pull my manipulation shit, I get the look back. Period. Game over. He knows and we don’t go there.

So it’s about equality yes but most of all it's about self esteem.

I don't buy into the "women are always the victim" mindset. No. She enables his addictions! It takes two to make a co-dependent relationship! Hit someone once, they're the victim, twice well........ what can I say, I agree with the rest of your sentence.
We teach people how to treat us. That is why the only way to be in a decent relationship is with someone who loves themselves. Love is a behavior NOT a feeling. Feelings change and then all that is left is the behavior. Lust wears off. So does the polish we apply when dating. People get old.

She makes it worse and worse on guys and polarizes the debate on gender equality in the United States. You want to make the man the victim? That too is skewed. If the man knew what he wanted besides “to get laid” he wouldn’t try to look like Ken and go in search of Barbie. Ken is afraid of a tear and Barbie is an airhead.
Guys have to get it together too. And more than that we have to mentor the young in society by teaching them not to indulge themselves but to love themselves. I think our society has confused the two things.

You would just love that, wouldn't you?No, by all means continue. Maybe next we can have an in-depth discussion about the merits of strangling babies.

In most parts of the world, abortions are accomplished using coat hangers.

There is a huge, huge, huge difference between being assertive in your needs in a relationship, and domestic violence. Hitting a woman doesn't make you "the man in the relationship"; it makes you a grade A asshole. Maybe a stint as Bubba's cellmate will teach you a bit about compassion, as your very own asshole will be violated by him.

I know that. I'm not saying you had any obligation to stop the dude; I'm saying that by stating that his behavior is okay, you're no better than he, except you didn't want to see her killed.

putting a woman in her spot if she needs it doesn't make me an asshole, it makes her remember her place.
heh, that's funny about bubba, it'd never happen. i'm guilty of making a few women more compassionate then, according to you.

i never said i was better then him. i just said i understand some chicks need reminders and to be put in their place.

most of you seem to think i go around pounding on chicks. i don't.
but i don't hesitate to smack them if they need it and some do. i'm talking about the lying, cheating, money hungry whores. and the women like my mom who try to make a man pussy whipped.
reading the girls stories here, i agree, they shouldn't have been hit. if they are telling the whole story, i would agree they were abused and didn't deserve it.

But they do love their spouse and feel loved and have a happy functioning relationship.

It's easy to confuse love with laziness. Many people in this country have relationships that aren't dysfunctional, but aren't really what they should be, either. I wouldn't exactly call these kinds of relationships happy and loving, even if the partners think they are. The human animal is one of the most easily tricked, and most of the tricking is done by his very own mind.

If a man controls the purse strings, he controls the relationship and things go down hill from there. Many if not the majority of men have not been raised to know how to deal with that power. Things spiral down from there.

Completely agreed. Ideally, men and women would keep largely separate finances. Rarely happens, though.

No need to rip his head off, a look will do. Beside... yak yak yak

People, please stop using your own relationships as the model by which the rest of the world should operate. Thank you.

You want to make the man the victim? That too is skewed.

Once again, I do not buy into the victim mindset. Men are fucked up. Women are fucked up. I am attempting to bring a little candor and frankness to the conversation. To paraphrase Mark Twain, as soon as I find myself agreeing with the majority, it's nigh time to start reassessing my position.

It has been my experience that those who do the most bragging do the least shagging. I'll bet angeldust is some pimply faced teenager who's only girlfriends are Mary Thumb and her four daughters.

i just pulled an all nighter banging the hell out of her. it was goood! i'm exhausted and my dick got real wet. maybe next time i'll snap some pics and post them for you.

She broke him? Without hitting him right?

You just made my point for me, you don't have to be physical to have power in a relationship (which is what it appears that you want), but personally I don't think good relationships require you to be in power.

There are many forms of 'power'. The only form of 'power' that I feel one should exert comes from making yourself into what others would admire. If you become successful in business, or in politics, or you become highly intellectual, or you build up great physique / strength etc.... People will admire you for what you have achieved for yourself, and they will respect you for it. If you're looking for fear, thats a different thing. Personally, I don't want my friends to fear me. I have never seen a good relationship that was built on fear - I've never seen a person willing to die for someone because they feared them.

a man doesn't need any pussy walking all over him. sometimes a simple smack will wake a woman the fuck up and respect you. other times she should get kicked out the door. thats where my father went wrong.

none of my friends fear me, and none of my chicks have to either. but if they want to play their fucking games, well, i don't have time for that bullshit. i'll treat them fucking fine, until they fucking lie to me, sleep around on me, or try to tell me what to do.

although I find reading AngelDusts posts in this thread quite entertaining - I doubt any of the "stories" are real, or if they are real then the truth will probably be somehwhat different

I could be wrong.

i have no one here to impress. why would i not tell the truth? i have nothing to hide. i tell it like it is.

you are wrong.

I love how people seem to think they are capable of judging such things based on what they say on the internet. I think they project their own inadequacies on everybody else.


i think they do too, that's a good way to sum it up. i should have probably read the whole thread first before making my other posts, you seem to have it wrapped up.

you're my kind of cat too, dude.

There was very much a need for you to post what you did. My posts are often long-winded and not as on-point as I'd like. Plus there's the fact that I don't actually live the stuff I spit. You do. There's far more perspective there than I can bring to the table.

The good relationships part was a side-note. In the offchance that you or angel might want a good relationship.


i do. i am looking for a good relationship. that's why i started this thread. normally i'd screw them and send them on their way, but she's different. she's caught my attention unlike the other chicks.
i'll bang her as much as i can, because, even though she says she's not going back to him, i still have a problem trusting her and getting close to her.but i want to.
i'm sick of bitchs lies and bullshit and all their fucking drama they crave.

napsterbater. i tried to pm you but your pm's are full. sorry about my last pm to you.



You know why? Because girl's like to see a guy who's confident and can be in charge, but if you keep being that dick, you'll lose the girls as fast as you get them.
it's not you keep on being a dick. it that the chicks play their fucking games and make you be a dick to them.

It's easy to confuse love with laziness. Many people in this country have relationships that aren't dysfunctional, but aren't really what they should be, either. I wouldn't exactly call these kinds of relationships happy and loving, even if the partners think they are. The human animal is one of the most easily tricked, and most of the tricking is done by his very own mind..
Who are you to say what a relationship should or shouldn’t be for someone else? A relationship in which both people are relatively happy and in which they become more together than they would have if apart works for many. It is not for another to decide what is happy and loving. YOU may not want what they have. Doesn’t mean it isn’t just fine for them. Also doesn't mean they have reached "their potential". Live and let live.

People, please stop using your own relationships as the model by which the rest of the world should operate. Thank you.
My relationship works for me and my partner because we set it up exclusively for US. It won’t work for anyone else because each needs unique little things. However, physicality doesn’t work for anyone. See the difference?


To paraphrase Mark Twain, as soon as I find myself agreeing with the majority, it's nigh time to start reassessing my position.
To quote Ibsen directly, “The majority is always wrong; the minority is rarely right”

:slap: :slap: :slap: :slap: :slap: :slap: :slap: :slap: :slap:

To most of the boys on this thread !!!

Shame on u !!

nice av, red. what are the chances we could hook up? i'm willing to show you tons of compassion!

i do. i am looking for a good relationship. that's why i started this thread. normally i'd screw them and send them on their way, but she's different. she's caught my attention unlike the other chicks.
i'll bang her as much as i can, because, even though she says she's not going back to him, i still have a problem trusting her and getting close to her.but i want to.
i'm sick of bitchs lies and bullshit and all their fucking drama they crave.

Wow you almost sounded intelligent there, Almost. You say you have a problem trusting her and getting close to her, but you want to? Freak you have known her three days. You have no clue what a healthy relationship is. You judge everything on how you perceive your parents relationship. Not every man is whipped if he wants to make his lady feel special. I bet the lady makes it worth his while and puts him first also. Relationships are work and a 50/50 split. It is not what can you do for your man and to hell with yourself. It is how can you make this relationship better and share with your partner. Show me a man that show that he knows how to treat a lady like a lady and I will show you a man who is getting a lot more action then you in a healthy way. You can have your opinion all be it very fucked up and corrupt, but you can have it. To cause harm to another because you think they are beneath you is low and shows the self esteem that you have for your self to need to belittle and abuse a female. Whether it be emotional or physical, it is all abuse. Not all women crave Fucking Drama as you so put it. Some of are much more ahead of you in the game and have left you in the dust many years ago. You feel by being rude and obnoxious you win anyone's respect, lol Not sure if you have heard the saying, you reap what you sew. Well you are attracting the people to you that are just like you! I know if my man talked about me or to me like you feel so free to do. I would kick his ass to the curb and move on I wouldn't waste my time.

Calling a women a bitch or bitches is so degrading and insulting. I am surprise someone would want to fuck you with this attitude. Well OK they may fuck you but they would never want anything more then a fuck from you as you seem to be incapable of articulating a descent train of thought that is not a waste of time. With this attitude you are going to attract everything you seem to be against.

Some guys feel empowered and need to control, put a women in their place. What fucking place is that and what give a man or women the right to put anyone in their place. You should try the other shoe baby and see how it feels.

A man would only hit me once and I would pack his shit so fast his head would spin and I would let the door hit him on the way out fucking hard. No one has the right to control anyone or make the subservient to their needs. That works for both men and women. I feel if a women hits a guy he has the right to hit her back. There is not right for anyone to hit anyone.

If you read anything on abuse studies you will see that most abusers were abused which does not excuse it at all. You have to have a healthy view of a relationship before you enter into a relationship with anyone. Going into a relationship with baggage creates more baggage to keep piling up until you are broke and have no more room and you repeat the cycle.

Compassion is not a word I feel that you have ever use or felt. Oh right that would constitute being whipped in your opinion. Whipped what the hell is that word to you. If a girl bends over backwards for her man it is seen as, "Oh I got my women in her place". If a man wants to do the same for his lady he is whipped. Well you know the man that is whipped by this definitions is see a lot more action in bed then you will ever see with your backwoods hicksville attitude. The action you see is not healthy action it is a fuck, end of story. You will never receive respect if you can not show respect.

Red, while being hella, hella hot, is good and married, and lives in England.

Sorry 'bout that, AngelDust. Stupid 70 message limit. Give it another try if you feel up to it.

Who are you to say what a relationship should or shouldn’t be for someone else?

Who are you? You're the one doing it. All I do is describe. You are the one prescribing solutions.

However, physicality doesn’t work for anyone.

Some couples like to beat each other up. Whatever works for them. I certainly wouldn't take someone else's version of love away from them. If the woman bitches, well then society can get involved.

Wow you almost sounded intelligent there, Almost. You say you have a problem trusting her and getting close to her, but you want to? Freak you have known her three days.

i stopped reading your dribble right here. you're clueless and not even worth my time to respond any further to you.

go make someone a sammich bitch.

Who are you? You're the one doing it. All I do is describe. You are the one prescribing solutions..
Yeah I read your post over, fair enough you did merely describe it. As for prescribing solutions other than giving someone love and building self esteem it is more of an observation than a solution.

The majority of relationships I have observed would not be something I would want to be involved in, but then I never have been much of a traditionalist nor do I hold it in high esteem.

i stopped reading your dribble right here. you're clueless and not even worth my time to respond any further to you.

go make someone a sammich bitch.

Maybe you shoulda read Shorty's post... mighta enlightened you enough so you could go out and get your own woman and stop chasing some other guy's sloppy seconds.

Just a thought.

(She's right-on with her advice, BTW. Ultimately, we all get what we deserve.)

:)
SMW

Maybe you shoulda read Shorty's post... mighta enlightened you enough so you could go out and get your own woman and stop chasing some other guy's sloppy seconds.



:)
SMW
maybe i would if she had half an idea what i was trying to say.

i wasn't so much chasing sloppy seconds. think of it as filling his cum dumpster in case she runs back to him.
it's worse then a beat down for some men.
problem is i think i'm falling in love with her.

maybe i would if she had half an idea what i was trying to say.

i wasn't so much chasing sloppy seconds. think of it as filling his cum dumpster in case she runs back to him.
it's worse then a beat down for some men.
problem is i think i'm falling in love with her.

But hey, what do you know, right?

(at least you admit it.)

But hey, what do you know, right?

(at least you admit it.)
yeah, the intellegance level of the women here is slipping right into the negatives.
stop while your on the egde, smw.

this is a man's thread.

could all you women get the fuck out of here?

christ

maybe i would if she had half an idea what i was trying to say.

i wasn't so much chasing sloppy seconds. think of it as filling his cum dumpster in case she runs back to him.
it's worse then a beat down for some men.
problem is i think i'm falling in love with her.

OMG LOVE You have no clue what love is in any way man. You are so clueless you should go and read a few books on how to have a healthy relationship. If you felt love for this poor girl you would not refer to her as a place to deposit your so called cum in her dumpster. That is the most repulsive thing you could ever say about a women.


I don't care if you think my word are dribbles in any way, because the reason you say that is I am to much women for you. I Challenge you and that drives you freaking nuts. I laugh at your uneducated responses. You could never control or own me the way you try and beat down your other female acquaintances. I will call them that as you don't know how to be a man.

Well one day you will grow up and you will realize that all women are not here to serve you or be called bitches. I can be a bitch and right now I feel sorry for you and your pathetic views on love and how to fuck (cum dumpstering). You are going to be doomed to just having fucks not love.

yeah, the intellegance level of the women here is slipping right into the negatives.
stop while your on the egde, smw.

Why, darlin... I've never been one to back off. Especially when ordered to do so by a man who doesn't have a clue.

And while we're on the subject... it's spelled intelligence, Einstein.

:p
SMW

this is a man's thread.

could all you women get the fuck out of here?

christ

Well maybe you need a females input. YOU seem to be screwing this one up all by yourself and fast.

PS: well maybe you should have put this was a boys club thread in your dribble you called a post. Love wow I am scared for that poor girl that has been through so much and then to have suck an ass like you in her life.
The old saying out of the frying pan into the fire sure rings true here.

Also if you don't want constructive criticism or input don't waste our time in posting.

this is a man's thread.

could all you women get the fuck out of here?

christ

Actually, it's an open thread on an open forum.

Tone down the language Angel. Consider this a warning.

Get the fuck out of here with that shit, Vile.

Jeez, it's not as if these women can't defend themselves. You gonna be their hero?

Get the fuck out of here with that shit, Vile.

Consider yourself warned as well Napster. If this continues I'll close the thread. If you don't like it go somewhere else.

*sniff sniff*

Ahhhhh, love the smell of testosterone in the morning.

Consider yourself warned as well Napster.

Yak, yak, yak...

If this continues I'll close the thread.

It's served it's purpose. All that remains is for dumbass women who can't understand shit to shoot their stupid mouths off when they should be listening.

If you don't like it go somewhere else.

Yak, yak, yak...

Ahhhhh, love the smell of testosterone in the morning.

Great, isn't it?

Actually, it's an open thread on an open forum.

Tone down the language Angel. Consider this a warning.
tone what down? this is me, this is who i am. this is the way i fucking talk.

fuck free speech on the net, eh?

OMG LOVE You have no clue what love is in any way man. You are so clueless you should go and read a few books on how to have a healthy relationship. If you felt love for this poor girl you would not refer to her as a place to deposit your so called cum in her dumpster. That is the most repulsive thing you could ever say about a women.


I don't care if you think my word are dribbles in any way, because the reason you say that is I am to much women for you. I Challenge you and that drives you freaking nuts. I laugh at your uneducated responses. You could never control or own me the way you try and beat down your other female acquaintances. I will call them that as you don't know how to be a man.

Well one day you will grow up and you will realize that all women are not here to serve you or be called bitches. I can be a bitch and right now I feel sorry for you and your pathetic views on love and how to fuck (cum dumpstering). You are going to be doomed to just having fucks not love.


yak, yak, yak.

my god you're a stupid, clueless c*nt.

*sniff sniff*

Ahhhhh, love the smell of testosterone in the morning.
k, you can stay.

It's served it's purpose. All that remains is for dumbass women who can't understand shit to shoot their stupid mouths off when they should be listening.




yep. word to your mothers.

AngelDust, napsterbater do you drink milk?

While on that topic, what about fluorinated water?

The only thing I ever drink is straight Tabasco sauce, so manly am I.

beer or whiskey for me.

Anyways, the point I was trying to make--one which only those who know the content of milk these days would get--is that there is in fact absolutely no high levels of testosterone around these two young guys, but merely the impression of high testosterone. An impression that must be shown and paraded because in all likelihood they have abnormally low levels of testosterone then average. Further proof given to me in the fact that neither could possibly have ever given a straight up answer to a simple question, but must instead interject either something funny or something outrageous in order to perceptively boost the amount of testosterone they think they have. In short, I think they either drive a big truck or have a V8 in their car. Unless they're incredibly poor due to the cranial damage they must have received in order to think they way they do, closer to the norm of their age than something logical and reasonable.
The second part was a bad joke related to Dr. Strangelove, I thought it was fitting with the question I asked.

you're still on your mothers tit, i can tell.

you're still on your mothers tit, i can tell.
Shhhh, it's okay, you can go back to getting wasted now.

This thread is closed.

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