shortstuff
06-07-2006, 11:09 AM
Hi: Not sure if I am starting this in the right area but oh well I will give it a try.
My question is long but simple.
How do you deal with people on these forums that are out and out sneaky and rude to you in a back ass way. People you thought were your friend. Do you check it at the door, get pissy back, or just leave the forum and call it a big old day. I know the guys will have a different answer then the girls but would like to hear their comments too if they wish to share them. :confused:
My reason for asking is, Well as I am sure most of you have more then one forum you might visit. Some more then others are your favorites. Well I started on another forum back in january for the rpg games on it. Meet a lot of really great people and also my boyfriend. He lives in the UK and I in Canada but we make it work. Love the webcam and voice and msn is a life saver. BUT there are a few people on this forum that are pissy ass wipes. I know that sounds mean. I have tried to be nice and just watch and listen and play my rpg but some this one girl/lady just feels a need to use her words to be a bitch in every post I make. Now I try to ignore all this but at what point to you say, "shut the F*** up". and how do you say it so that not to make yourself look like the jerk. Or do you just walk away from the forum all together. I know this sounds like a whinning thread, but I am curious how other might have dealt with this. Maybe I just need thicker skin to be on the internet and relax and say they don't matter and suck it up. Don't really know.
thanks for listening and let me know your opinion. :rolleyes:
My question is long but simple.
How do you deal with people on these forums that are out and out sneaky and rude to you in a back ass way. People you thought were your friend. Do you check it at the door, get pissy back, or just leave the forum and call it a big old day. I know the guys will have a different answer then the girls but would like to hear their comments too if they wish to share them. :confused:
My reason for asking is, Well as I am sure most of you have more then one forum you might visit. Some more then others are your favorites. Well I started on another forum back in january for the rpg games on it. Meet a lot of really great people and also my boyfriend. He lives in the UK and I in Canada but we make it work. Love the webcam and voice and msn is a life saver. BUT there are a few people on this forum that are pissy ass wipes. I know that sounds mean. I have tried to be nice and just watch and listen and play my rpg but some this one girl/lady just feels a need to use her words to be a bitch in every post I make. Now I try to ignore all this but at what point to you say, "shut the F*** up". and how do you say it so that not to make yourself look like the jerk. Or do you just walk away from the forum all together. I know this sounds like a whinning thread, but I am curious how other might have dealt with this. Maybe I just need thicker skin to be on the internet and relax and say they don't matter and suck it up. Don't really know.
thanks for listening and let me know your opinion. :rolleyes: