ok everyone do you all think it is normal for someone to cry and always think about goin to grad school when they are not ready to go yet, but yet they have people telling them they need to and expect them to? see in my situation i have that issue...people are always asking me when im goin to grad school and i always tell them in the fall but honestly im not ready to go yet..i want to work first and get experience..plus im gonna need money eventually anyways...but i feel as though if i start grad school late and tell them that they (church members, family) will believe i never really intend to go and they will think low of me if i dont want to go now? i jus feel as though i dont wanna let them down and the reason why im taking time off now is because i jus graduated in december and i wanted a break really....i really want to work and get experience and if that works for me i am content... whether i go t o grad school now or not.. ihave even gone as far to tell some people i already applied to some schools but in actuality i have not. ...what do you all think i should do and do you all think this normal?

wat should i do?

"Learning to spell" would be a good start.

Definitely do what's best for you and not what everyone thinks you should do. And yeah, learn how to spell.

Definitely go to grad school if you have the chance. It will pay off in the long run.

Also .....beware of the "looky Lou's" .....in here and in your career future ........cuzzzzzzzzz ....they like to berate people (it seems to make them feel better about themselves) ......for letting down and expressing your thoughts. Don't let criticism of a misspelled word ..............deter you from your future goals.


Slim

Also .....beware of the "looky Lou's" .....in here and in your career future ........cuzzzzzzzzz ....they like to berate people (it seems to make them feel better about themselves) ......for letting down and expressing your thoughts. Don't let criticism of a misspelled words ..............deter you from your future goals.

That's nice and all, Slim, but I'm pretty sure most grad schools prefer people that can read and write like an adult. Try writing your resume like that and see how far you get.

"Learning to spell" would be a good start.

Agreed....

You freaking guys are incredible ....*L*.

This is not a resume or a disertation ....this is .....allforums .....a little place in cyberspace where nobody is worried about whether you make a spelling mistake or not.

Talk about elitists.....*L*.


Slim

The most reasonable definition of an adult is one who is capable of making their own decisions in life, weighing all the factors and circumstances and doing what they deem the best thing. An adult also accepts the consequences of those decisions.

Talk about elitists.....*L*.

Learn how to punctuate!

This is not a resume or a disertation ....this is .....allforums .....a little place in cyberspace where nobody is worried about whether you make a spelling mistake or not.

You got the right address? Oh, and it's dissertation*.

I think you better check the dictionarry again ....you miss pelled it......*W*


Slim

That would be a negative, slim. Why don't you leave the spelling corrections to the smart people?

Over here in England its quite normal to take a year out ,,,,,we travel we work crappy low paid jobs we go pick grapes in the south of France.....

Hell we leave at 16 too.........

If your not ready for Grad school take your year off,,,,go experience how life would be if u had no qualifications behind u........

You might even make a good life for yourself...

BOYS BOYS,,,YALL MAKE ME LAUGH ,,,U BICKER LIKE YOUR IN THE PLAYGROUND !! :rolleyes:

ok everyone do you all think it is normal for someone to cry and always think about goin to grad school when they are not ready to go yet, but yet they have people telling them they need to and expect them to? see in my situation i have that issue...people are always asking me when im goin to grad school and i always tell them in the fall but honestly im not ready to go yet..i want to work first and get experience..plus im gonna need money eventually anyways...but i feel as though if i start grad school late and tell them that they (church members, family) will believe i never really intend to go and they will think low of me if i dont want to go now? i jus feel as though i dont wanna let them down and the reason why im taking time off now is because i jus graduated in december and i wanted a break really....i really want to work and get experience and if that works for me i am content... whether i go t o grad school now or not.. ihave even gone as far to tell some people i already applied to some schools but in actuality i have not. ...what do you all think i should do and do you all think this normal?



go bak 2 scool.

no.it's not normal. you're a freak.

See what I mean ...the been counters fall for it every time .......*L*.

They are like little clerks in dark dreary rooms above the dry cleaners.


Slim