Dear World,

I have a dream for all of us. My dream for all of us is happiness. In order for my dream to come true I am going to need a little help from you. One of the main reasons for so many unhappy people is judging. All of us have been guilty of judging or being judged. It does not make it right. There are two types of days where I feel that it is an exception to be judged. Judgement day should be an exception and the days we have to go to court. Both of those days can definitely be the most difficult or easy days to go through.
Before I continue with my letter I would like to tell the world that I love you no matter who you are. We are who we are for a purpose. Who are we to tell one another that were not serving our purpose. I am writing this letter just as I see it in my mind because it really is a dream I really can see coming true.
Like I mentioned earlier, we really need to start making a cautious effort to stop judging others. What I mean by cautious effort is think about when somebody judge you in a way that makes you feel unhappy. Do you really think its fair to someone for you to make them feel unhappy because another judgemental person made you unhappy? This vicious cycle has to end. The world is full of people who just want to be understood. I would rather be understood than misjudged any day. Think about how you feel when someone sees the good in you rather than try to find fault in you. It is a great feeling. It brings joy to your soul and a smile to your face. Smiles can also bring laughter. Laughter is a beautiful feeling. I love to laugh. I think laughter is a symbol for happiness.
I really hope this is a dream that everyone can share because it is definitely going to take all of us in order to make it come true.

Share my Dream,
Chazara :)
Email @ Chazaraslife@yahoo.com

So if I read this right all we need to be happy is not to judge. bwahahahahahahahaha sorry but I could care less what some stranger thinks of me. If they feel the need to put me down then I hope it does bring joy to them atleast that way I know I have made someone happy.

A few things I disagree with :
- The very idea that an ideal world is a world of happiness. To be happy should not be a goal but a consequence. I would rather dream of a world of peace or justice.

- The idea that judging is the cause of unhappiness. Maybe this is your problem, but IMO hunger, diseases, tiny shoes or people with bad breath are much bigger issues.

- The very idea that it would be possible to live without being judged except in court and in the afterlife. Either you're never judged, oryou are responsible for your acts in front of men or God and then you accept to be judged every day by other people.

The only thing that keeps us from following our basest instincts is the fact that we are judged. We are judged every time we interact with people. We sit at the dinner table and eat with our fingers rather than utensiles and we are judged. We run a red light while driving and we are judged. We take a candy bar from a 7-11 without paying for it, we are judged. We cut a line at the movie theater and we are judged.

Being judged is necessary to being part of society. It is the grease that keeps the wheels of society moving smoothly. Judgement by others is far more consequential in keeping people acting acceptably than all the laws in a society. Mores and customs, those things that are judged, are far more weighty than laws.

I guess some of you really did not listen to my heart when you read ny letter. Or maybe you just understood me but just totally disagree. I wrote this letter because this is a dream that I (Chazara) have. I am not trying to make anyone believe or do as I do. I just have a dream that I would like to share. It is up to you whether or not you want to share it with me. I am a type of person who loves to be happy and I love to see others happy. I talk and listen to people all day. Some are happy and some are sad. Most are unhappy because they are misunderstood by judgemental people. I know judging do exist and I know that is a part of life but it is hurting so many people and that really makes me hurt inside. So I respect each and everyones view because you have I right to them whether they were meant to disaree or agree with me. But I am going to continue to live out my dream.

You go, Chazara. More power to you. Live out your dream and I hope it makes you happy. I disagree with you assessment of the world but it is a bit refreshing to know that there are still idealists out there.